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如果这样子的人，可以原谅的话，那么还有什么天理？朋友如果是用来利用和出卖的话，我宁愿从没认识。

a good design is consist of ideas from various designs...the moment u created sumtin actually u r oso copying other ppl's idea and pls be prepared dat sum day sum1 will copy urs oso...

人生就是这样的啦~~~~
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Very interesting....i think via this discussion 'he' will know what others think of him.

i agree wit khai xian comment.
旁观者清
sometime, we may control by our emotion and do something that we unaspected.so , follow the other decisioin may minimise the risk that we may controled by our feeling.

kf wrote:i agree wit khai xian comment.
旁观者清
sometime, we may control by our emotion and do something that we unaspected.so , follow the other decisioin may minimise the risk that we may controled by our feeling.

if can't control emotion, the person ardy die d.... dun said 旁观者清, if u aso hav take part wen ur friends discuss about this topic.....

what for? why forgive? this kind ppl can less one then less one larh

who said if can't control the emotion ,the person wil die.I'm seeing so many person that losing control of their emotion and i don't think he or she is a die people.

i'm also the 当局者.

dun say follow other decision cuz others r human too, they will be controlled by emotion same as u...so be a man la!!!

wah...shock again n again...for me, since i read from a book and state that :'' if u still angry with someone that hurt u or betray u it's mean that u still care on him or her....

so i try to do not angry with those to make me sad or betray me....
wuagagaga....this is 最高境界。。。hahah...say say only....

i agree with the apple said '' if u still angry with someone that hurt u or betray u it's mean that u still care on him or her....
the opposite of the care and love is not hate but is not care and not look at him or her.So when you angry to so if you stil angry to someone it's mean that him or her stil have the place in your heart.

eventhough everyone also wil controled by emotion ,but the level of controled by emotion is not same.someone may master in controling their emotion.so they can easily calm down and think more and look from the other side.

actually ,i choose to follow the other decision because i'm not really facing this problem yet.So if you wanna ask wat will i do when i facing this problem .normally i will find the reason why her or him do this such thing to me.If she or he is the person that the heart have been eaten by dog.than i wil assume that i have never know her or him before.

for those who already vote, pls state your opinion~~
dont be chickened-out~~



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Geomatic Gene wrote:... ...they will look into this matter wif a general point of view without any bias... ...if unexplanable tins happen continously so much there's only 2 conclusion:a) sum tin wrong wif him...b) sum tin wrong wif us.....haha....those wif emotions....i tin they should be in category 2..hehei... ...

深いですね～
深~啊~
so deep, like the song sing by Do As Infinity: 深い森 (Deep Forest)
"... 深い深い森の奥に　今はきっと...
... 僕たちは　生きるほどに ..."
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kf wrote:i agree with the apple said '' if u still angry with someone that hurt u or betray u it's mean that u still care on him or her....
the opposite of the care and love is not hate but is not care and not look at him or her.So when you angry to so if you stil angry to someone it's mean that him or her stil have the place in your heart.

eventhough everyone also wil controled by emotion ,but the level of controled by emotion is not same.someone may master in controling their emotion.so they can easily calm down and think more and look from the other side.

dun be chiken!!!ok!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone have their reasons to vote...but remember, your vote may break or cure ones heart. I purposely organise tis vote in order to let the one see all ppl views of him. So, just write down wat u wanna to say...your disatisfactory...ways to handle tis conflict...JUST WRITE. Pls avoid words that 人身攻击 cause v r all educated ppl. One thing...educated ppl doesn't mean u always do the forgiving jobs each time he or she doing sumtin bad over you.

will you spare his "guilt"

或许我是个懒人，有时我甚至会觉得生气一个人也是个浪费能量的无谓举动。所以，我通常对那些惹我的人冷漠对待。如果情况严重，我甚至会选择直接漠视他的存在。虽然我偶尔也有精力过剩的时候。

kf wrote:或许我是个懒人，有时我甚至会觉得生气一个人也是个浪费能量的无谓举动。所以，我通常对那些惹我的人冷漠对待。如果情况严重，我甚至会选择直接漠视他的存在。虽然我偶尔也有精力过剩的时候。

你是"懒人"？!!!

冷漠对待 VS 漠视存在
what's the different??

dont copy how i treat the snake la..........................

哈哈！ 习惯就好啦！！！